AFFIRMATIONS AND HOW TO MAKE THEM WORK FOR YOU!!
You may be wondering, just what is an Affirmation? An
Affirmation is similar to a prayer, wish or goal, only more
structured and specific. Simply stated, the basis of all
Affirmations is positive thinking. To affirm to is make firm.
We do Affirmations to attain our heart's desires and everyone
from five to one hundred years of age can do Affirmations.
As I say in my Book
WELCOME TO THE WONDERFUL WORLD OF AFFIRMATIONS, WHERE DREAMS
REALLY CAN AND DO COME TRUE!!!
There are some basic, simple steps to follow in this proven
method of doing Affirmations. If you were planting a garden,
wouldn't you first prepare the soil?
- Doing Affirmations is similar to planting a
garden.
- Step One: Prepare the soil of your subconscious mind by
forgiving everyone and everything that has EVER hurt
you, then forgive yourself. Now say, I,(your name) now love,
respect and approve of myself just the way I am. (When doing
this forgiving process, be prepared for old memories to
surface that may have been hidden in the deep crevices of
your subconscious mind. You may have forgotten them
completely). When this happens, own these memories, feel the
pain and hurt, and then forgive them completely and cast
them into the sea of God's forgetfulness, never to be
thought of again.
- Step Two: Plant the seed. The seed is your Master
Affirmation. Suppose you are desiring a relationship:
EXAMPLE OF A MASTER AFFIRMATION TO ATTAIN THAT PERFECT,
LASTING HAPPY RELATIONSHIP:
Say, I, (your name) DESERVE AND NOW HAVE a loving,
lasting, happy relationship/marriage with the perfect man/woman
for me. He or she is healthy, kind, loving, honest, faithful and
financially independent. He or she is on the same spiritual path
and allows me to grow and evolve as I allow that person to do
the same. We are happy together to the good of all parties
concerned. Thank you, Thank you, Thank you. Describe that
person, height, hair, eyes and physical make up. Make up your
own Affirmations as the Affirmations that come from your very
being are the most powerful. You are the best person to really
know what YOU need.
You must really feel that you `deserve' what you are
affirming or you will hinder the process and the desired
results. Every Master Affirmation must have `to the good of all
parties concerned'. This is your safety net, so if what you are
affirming is not to your good and the good of everyone involved
it will not manifest. It must be a `WIN/WIN' situation.
One of my readers, Carolyn did an Affirmation for the sum of
two thousand ($2,000.00) Dollars for a second hand car. She kept
repeating two thousand 2,000.00) Dollars, two thousand
($2,000.00) Dollars over and over. She lulled herself to sleep
saying, that amount. She went to a party, drank a little too
much and decided to take a cab home, and that cab got into an
accident and guess what her settlement with the Insurance
company was right to the penny? You guessed it, two thousand
($2,000.00) Dollars! I truly believe that if she had added `to
the good of all parties concerned', she would have received that
amount of money and not had to suffer the pain and loss of work
that the car accident incurred. She called me from Texas the
other day, and said, "Anne Marie, I am affirming ....saying
I am happy.... to the good of all parties concerned. She sure
learned her lesson.
It is important in your Master Affirmation to say Thank you,
Thank you, Thank you, three times. When you say thank you, you
obligate the planet for more. Also when you maintain an attitude
of gratitude, you open the flood gates of heaven for more and
more blessings.
Your Master Affirmation is YOUR order to the Universe.
Make it specific. Say exactly what you desire. Should you order
a shirt or dress from the catalogue, and if you just wrote, dear
sirs, please send me a dress, they would write back and say,
"Your name, we are sorry we cannot fill your order, please
be more specific and state the size, color, quantity, catalogue
number, etc". Lets give God, Universal Mind, or whomever we
believe in as much consideration when doing our Affirmations as
we give the department stores or the server in a restaurant when
taking our order for food.
PROCEEDURE:
Type or neatly print this Master Affirmation three times on a
sheet of paper (preferably pink), or paste it on a pink sheet
and place it in a plastic cover. You only need do this
proceedure once.
When affirming for relationship or marriage use pink, for
career, change, growth, money use green, for healing or health,
use blue and for spiritual growth use yellow, white or indigo.
Color excites the subconscious mind.
Take a sketch or likeness of the person you are desiring to
attract and place it on the top of the page. Do not use a
photograph of a real person as it is not to the good of all
parties concerned to order up someone, especially if it is
against his or her will. This is not to the good of all parties
concerned and could have unhappy results for the maker.
NOW you have completed Step Two.
- Step Three: Water and fertilize the seed (your Master
Affirmation) this is done by taking out your Master
Affirmation every morning and every evening and reading it
over. Your subconscious mind takes in every detail and
stores it for all time. Put a guard at the gate of your
subconscious mind and do not let one negative thought slip
through. Do some serious `thought watching.' We have between
50,000 to 60,000 thoughts that run through our minds every
day. How many of those do you think are positive and how
many do you think are the same as the day before?
NOW simply step ahead two to three weeks, or two or
three months and visualize that event taking place, in this case
that perfect mate and you together, laughing, walking and
loving.
- Bring in the five (5) senses:
- SEE: The outline here is sufficient;
- HEAR: That person saying, Your name, I love you;
- SMELL: Smell cologne or perfume or some flowers;
- FEEL: Feel his or her arms around you;
- TASTE: Can you taste a kiss? If not, pop a tasty mint into
your mouth, or bite into a juicy apple to complete the five
senses.
You already have that perfect, loving, lasting relationship,
it just has not happened yet. Take a separate scrap of paper and
jot down your short form affirmation which is simply `happy
marriage or happy relationship' seven times. You can throw away
that sheet of paper. You can now put your Master Affirmation
away and go on to the next Master Affirmation. You can do
several Affirmations at one setting, just be sure to put each
Affirmation on separate sheets and deal with each one
separately.
LAST STEP:
Lull yourself to sleep at night saying,` perfect marriage, or
happy relationship' over and over. This way your subconscious
mind will have all night to work on making your Affirmation come
true. When you lull yourself to sleep choose only ONE
short form affirmation for a period of twenty-one days and then
change to another one. Otherwise, you will have to think what
you said and it will hinder the concentration and desired
results.
Now `blow breath' into your affirmations by action.
Accept invitations, meet people, let your friends and relative
know that you are in the market for that special person.
Affirmations work within the Law of Attraction, which is one
of the laws of the great Universe, (the principle of like
attracts like, what you think about you bring about, more
gathers more, what you are seeking, is seeking you).
SOME HELPFUL HINTS ABOUT AFFIRMATIONS:
- You can do Affirmations anywhere, anytime. There is no
equipment required. Try and do them at approximately the
same time each day. Clear your mind of all worries, doubts,
and negative thoughts and feelings.
- Be sure your Master Affirmation contains the 3 P's, that
they are personal, positive and present tense. If you say
"I, (your name) DESERVE 'AND NOW WILL have a
loving, lasting, happy relationship", you will in the
future, next year or perhaps in some future lifetime. Your
subconscious mind will honour your `tomorrowness.'
- The magic words are `DESERVE AND NOW HAVE.'
- Use action words. Make it interesting and exciting.
- Never affirm an ability as you already have it.
We can affirm for others, but they have to want what you are
affirming. I find it best to have others do their very own
Affirmations and then I will do a support Affirmation for them.
I say to many, many people, "I will support you when you go
the mile, but I will not go the mile for you!" Give people
back their power. It is O.K. to`hold' a space for someone
and it is very different from `being in their space.' Use
bright, vivid colors.
Please be patient. Don't be like the little boy who planted a
seed and kept digging it up to see if it was growing. Just
KNOW what you plant in the rich, fertile soil of your
subconscious mind will bring forth after its own kind. Expect
results, have faith as of the grain of mustard. There is no lack
in the Universe. Notice the vast forest of trees, millions and
millions of flowers, rocks, mountains, streams, etc. all for us
to enjoy and use, Let us claim our inheritance Now!
Inject your Affirmations with love, surround them in a pink
bubble and send them off into the universe to manifest your
wishes.
Say regularly, "I, (your name) DESERVE AND NOW ENJOY
doing my Affirmations regularly to the good of all parties
concerned. Thank you, Thank you, Thank you."
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